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Sunday, November 27, 2011

Looking for a new job!

My job right now is very stress, not because of my work, but because of my boss, everyone keep on saying that our boss is different right now, he is getting more annoyed and always like to blame his fault onto others, so on this december i am planning to look for a new job and hope that i can get the job after chinese new year because i wanted to take my bonus first! i really need those bonus to buy furniture for our house T.T

Wednesday, November 09, 2011

Happy 27th Birthday!!!

Happy 27th Birthday baby!!! Sorry there is no present for your birthday this time, i have no budget at all, i have been using all my money to buy groceries for our new house T.T but i will buy u something later on, that's my promise ok! i love you baby, i love you so much, having our own house is our best moment together, thanks baby for being with me all this time, muaaahhhh ;*

Saturday, October 08, 2011

Renovation Progress Report for Day 5

Yesterday is the fifth day for our renovation, so far i think everything is just fine. As for yesterday, the sink is already up, tiles for the table top is almost complete, Miniature Circuit Breaker (MCB) is installed and wiring work has started. I really can't wait for the renovation to complete, it's like a dream come true that we have our own house. Am i right baby? ;D

Wednesday, October 05, 2011

Renovation Started!

Before i started updating our renovation status, I'm seriously surprised when i saw your posting, I've been asking you a lot of times to update our blog, but you didn't, suddenly after a long time, i saw your post, thanks baby ;D

Okay, lets continue as per-title, today (5th October 2011) is the 3rd day of renovation. The thing that we done for renovation is we are going to tiles the wet kitchen area, balcony and entrance of our house, then we will replace the existing big window at the kitchen area with a smaller window just to let some light went in, and lastly we did a concrete table top and installed a kitchen cabinet.

So far as day 3, I'm totally satisfied with the progress even though their work is a bit messy, but i know i can count on them because this is the 2nd time we engaged them to do renovation for our house. The table top is already up, the old big window already removed and replaced with a new small window and the bricks and the wall already plastered. Their current progress is now they are doing the leg for the table top and ready to put the tiles at the table top.

As for my expectation, I'm expecting them to complete at the kitchen area by end of this week, so that by Monday next week i can called the kitchen cabinet guy to do the final measurement and install the kitchen cabinet around a week after that.

The costing for our renovation is rm7645, kitchen cabinet is rm4550 and lamp and fan is rm1540, when i think of it, that is a lots but what to do, we wanted to complete everything in one shot, we don't want to do renovation after renovation, it's going to be tiring.

After everything is complete, we had no more budget to buy furniture or even a bedroom set, so until we had the money, we just sleep on a Toto and had our meal on the floor, so that's all for now, i will update again later.

Thanks baby for everything and i love you so much! hope that we can get our baby after this, muaaahhh! :*

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Trying to Conceive (p1)

Alhamdulillah, we manage to get our own house (or apartment) finally. As speaking, we already got the keys and in progress to do renovation etc. Settle one thing, relieved! And so i am now ready to focus on our next target, which is having a baby!



After almost 6 month being married, on Sept 2011, we decided to seriously trying to get a baby :) (Without stress involve..InsyaAllah ada rezeki, dapat la, cuma kita as human need to try and tawakal)



Just for the record:


Cycle 1



  • Period 1st day: 27th Aug 2011

  • Cycle time: 25 days

  • Supplement: Acid Folic

Cycle 2

  • Period 1st day: 21st Sept 2011

  • Cycle time: N/A

  • Supplement: Acid Folic, EPO

  • Others: Trying to exercise regularly


If cycle 2 failed, i am planning to get myself a basal thermometer to identify my ovulation day :) I am believe that Allah always know whats best for me and when is the best time to get something. It always been that way :)



Berdoa semoga Allah mengurniakan kita anak2 yang soleh dan solehah. Amin.



Love u syg!Mmuuahh!
xoxo,



Baby :)

Monday, August 01, 2011

1 Ramadan 1432

Today according to the islamic calendar, its dated 1st ramadhan 1432 hijrah. Today is my first day fasting as someone's husband, Happy Fasting my dear and in 29 more days, we will celebrate our first raya together, i felt happy being with you baby and u meant so much to me, love you baby, love you so much, muaaaahhh :*

Monday, July 11, 2011

Durian

owh, it has been a while since i updated this blog, so i don't really know where to start because basically as for our marriage, everything is just fine, just been busy with work because lots of project to handle and as for our house buying also as what i can see, everything is smooth.

Just our last trip to temerloh, i saw our durian tree behind our house has a lot of durian, around +- 20, cannot wait until it drop, hehehe..

Last but not least, just want you to know to i am so in love with you no matter what Noraisma Ahmad @ Ismail ;)

Sunday, June 05, 2011

National Park


Yesterday 4th June 2011, we had nothing to do, so around 4 something like that, we (me, my wife, my sis in law and my dad) went out heading out of nowhere, we had no planning to go anywhere, we just set our course to jerantut but there is no exact location where to go at jerantut. So once our arrival at jerantut, we saw this national park (taman negara) signboard, so i ask my wife should we go? she just said carry on, so from the junction to taman negara, it was like +- 100km before we reach, we arrive at kuala tahan, the entrance to taman negara. We park our car and just looking at the entrance of taman negara because to go there, we had to go by boat to cross the river, then we buy some souvenir (t-shirt) as a memory that we have reach kuala tahan =P baby, i love u so much and i enjoy all my time with you ;D

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Ayam Masak Sambal Terlebih & Sayur Campur Macam Biasa ;)

Hi sayang,

Its 230pm now, i am waiting for you to come home and have lunch together.. This is the first time i cook lunch myself at Keramat..hehehe.. Just a simple menu; ayam masak sambal terlebih, sebab tak reti budget utk ayam 2ketul. And sayur campur as usual.. These are the only menu that i know how to cook with the ingredient i have.. I promise when we have our own house i will learn more, but dont expect me to cook everyday ya ;p hehee



Ayam Masak Sambal Terlebih



Sayur Campur Macam Biasa ;p


Ahh.laparnye. Cepat la balik syg~
love u so much!Always and forever! mmuuaahh

xoxo
-baby

Tuesday, May 03, 2011

Pasar Sehari

Last sunday, we went to pasar sehari at temerloh, it is quite famous because it has the longest pasar in malaysia, well im not sure about that, i just knew about it from majalah 3 that we saw the nite before that =P so to start the story, we woke up around 645am and then we headed to the pasar sehari at 730am. Upon our arrival there, a lot of stall is already open, i wonder at what time they start the pasar. then at the pasar, we bought a lot of thing including one thing that can never be forgotten if we come to temerloh, it is ikan patin. the patin that we bought is just a patin sangkar, i really wanted to look at patin muncung, based on majalah 3, the patin muncung price can goes up to rm300 per kilogram, i wonder what so special about this fish until it can reach until that price, but too bad, there is no patin muncung on that day. so we just walk at the pasar sehari until the end of the pasar sehari. we bought lots of thing there, we bought sate, jantung pisang, chicken, laksa, ikan patin, karipap and cucur badak, etc.

At the pasar sehari, there is a lot of stall selling parang, it really catches my attention, but the price is too expensive, i can only look at it, maybe later one day i will buy one or two. Another thing that catches my eyes is there is a people selling anak ayam, anak itik, puyuh and rabbit, something that you cannot see everyday at KL, i really looking forward to go the the pasar again ;)

2nd May 2011

Pekan - Mak Tam & Pak Tam
Beserah - Cik Dah
Kuantan - Cu Bibah & Cu Hashim
Kuantan - Achek

Attendees: Me, Wife, Adik Ita, Abah
Time: 830AM - 1115PM
Transport: Saga BLM (CCF****)
Route: LPT
Conclusion: Mak Tam house near to the sea, Near Cik Dah house a lot of SATA and Keropok Lekor stall, Cu house got Pool and Jacuzzi, Achek gate is chrome in color, went back from kuantan, do not follow route to kuantan toll, it is very dark!

P/S: baby, love u lar, tamo lar asik tido jer T.T

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Battery Kaput

Last tuesday, i have to go to work early because i had this bomba inspection at 930am, so im planning to sent my wife to her office around 750am and try to reach at my office at 815am, but that day is not my day, when we entered the car and i try to start the car, the car cannot started! omg!!! our car battery kaput already, so i take my car key and open my rear bonnet, reach my toolbox, open my front bonnet and as fast as i could, i dismantle my car battery, then i check the size, its the same, so i dismantle her car battery and swap with mine, then i try to start the car and wolla! it started! that time its already 715am, so i pack everything up and went to office. In the afternoon i go survey some shop for the battery, and i found this one shop selling this century ns60 at rm165, he accepted trade in for old battery at rm10, so i bought the battery at rm155 after trade in the old battery, and while typing this, all in the sudden i felt that i miss her...

Baby Majuk

mula2 kita tgk tv sama2, pastu jer last2 syg tgk tv sorg2, pastu jer bila cite tu dh hbs, syg pkl bontot baby syg ni dgn bantal, tak sangka plak baby syg ni terjaga dr tido smpai terkejut, niat syg nk gurau2 jer, tak psl baby terus emo dgn syg, terus syg ckp2 apa smua tak layan, pastu jer buat tak layan jer kat syg, syg terasa hati bila baby wat cmtu, sedeyh, tp taper lar, salah syg jgk, sori tau baby, walaupun baby tak layan syg, syg still sayangkan baby..


p/s: teringat smlm baby nangis sbb syg kacau baby masa baby tido, ingatkan baby nangis sbb syg kacau, rupanya baby nangis sbb hidung tersumbat, taleh nk nafas ;D

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Peaceful Sunset


This picture reminds me of her sitting in the car telling me she's having a headache, yet this picture is very peaceful and relaxing to me, thnx baby for giving me the opportunity to snap this beautiful pic, love u, muaaaahhhh =*

Sick

I don't know why, after we getting married, my wife always got headache and fever, pity her, do i pressured her a lot? T.T baby, i love you so much tau! nk baby jr~

Friday, April 08, 2011

Someone in someone's blog!


I visit anna sha blog and look what i found ;D

http://annashahana.blogspot.com/2011/04/pengantin-ais.html

Wednesday, April 06, 2011

Tips Sebelum Tido

1. Sebelum tidur, peluk dan cium isteri. Tidak semestinya cium di mulut tetapi di dahi, di pipi atau mana² bahagian yang biasa dicium….

2. Kemudian, lafazkan ucapan I love you… Kalau nak cakap “Abang cintakan Ayang” pun boleh tapi… Dah jadi budaya kita agaknya nak sebut I love youlebih mudah…

3. Renung wajahnya. Berikan renungan seolah itu kali terkhir untuk anda melihatnya. Kemudian belailah rambutnya.

4. Cuba nyanyikan lagu paling romantis untuk dia. Kalau rasa suara tak sedap, boleh dengarkan lagu yang sebegitu sambil katakan lagu itu anda tujukan khas untuknya.

5. Jika masih ada masa, ulang cerita tentang zaman sebelum berkahwin atau zaman bulan madu. Jangan cerita semua. Satu hari ungkit satu cerita. Tapi yang seronok sajalah. Jangan ungkit masa bergaduh pula…

6. Ajak dia berbicara tentang anak dan keluarga. Ceritakan apa yang dia dah lakukan untuk anda dan anda amat berterima kasih dengan perbuatannya.

7. Kalau mampu, ceritalah tentang isteri² Rasulullah saw dan bagaimana mereka menghadapi cabaran.

8. Tidurlah dalam keadan berpelukan. Biarlah dia berbantalkan lengan,dada atau bahu anda.Sebenarnya ada banyak lagi yang boleh diperbuat.

Tidak semestinya berakhir dengan hubungan intim.

Insya-Allah, bila isteri kita tahu yang kita betul² sayangkan dia, layanannya juga akan menjadi lebih baik. Bila layanannya baik, kita nak pasang lain pun jadi ragu² sebab bimbang yang baru kita dapat tak sehebat isteri kita sekarang.

Monday, April 04, 2011

Life as a married person

As for today, we had been husband and wife for 12 days, before we continue our story as a married couple, we would like to continue our honeymoon story first, so on the 30th March, we have extended our honeymoon for another day, so on that day, we went to Taman Paya Bakau and Teluk Batik. During our arrival at Taman Paya Bakau, we were welcomed by lots of monkey, and there is a short drama happened once we arrived there, one of the monkey try to snatch a mineral water bottle from my wife handbag, then i scream at the monkey and the monkey running away, but after that, the monkey came back to us a scream back to us, i was quite frightened that time seeing its teeth =P Then we continue our journey to Teluk Batik, it was so damn beautiful, the scenery was so peaceful and it looks like a paradise to us, maybe its because we had our visit there on weekdays and when the time we arrived, the sun is already ready to set down, then on our way back to hotel, we saw people selling durian along the roadside, so we stop and had our durian first ;p after that, when we arrived at hotel, we had our in room dining together for the second time ;D

Then on the 1st April, our honeymoon is over, so our plan is heading to Temerloh and on our way to Temerloh, we had a stop at KL first, so on our way to KL, we found lots of people selling durian along the roadside at Gopeng, so we stop and had our durian for the second time, after that we go to our mom's home at malim nawar, just to have a short visit, then we continue our journey and stop for another time to had our durian for the third time =P we also bought a lots of durian for our parents at KL and Temerloh =P we arrived at KL around 4:00PM++ and we continue our journey to Temerloh at 6:30PM if i were not mistaken.

Our journey is the best, even though my wife keep having headache during our journey to KL and Temerloh, but still our journey is so much fun, i love you baby, i will always loving you, muuuaaaahhh :*

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Honeymoon: Swiss Garden Golf Resort & Spa Damai Laut


28th March 2011 - 30th March 2011
When i wrote this post, the time showing at 12:57AM, so that mean this is our third day staying at Swiss Garden Golf Resort & Spa Damai Laut, Swiss Garden Golf Resort & Spa Damai Laut is a very wonderful place, the location is beautiful and there is a lot of activities can be done here. As for us, during our first day there is nothing much that we can do because we arrived at the hotel at somewhere near 8:00PM, then we just headed to our room and we ordered a nasi goreng kampung and chicken chop for our dinner and we had it on our bed, this is our first time in-room dinner and it was so romantic!

Then on our next day, we woke up early and i went to the beach near the hotel area and it was so beautiful! so i snap some picture of the beach. After that we went to Segari Turtle Sanctuary, during our way to the Turtle Sanctuary, i thought i can touch the turtle when i was there, but we can only see the turtle and no one was there to guide us. After seeing the turtle, we continue our journey to Pangkor Island, we park our car at Lumut and we take a ferry to Pangkor Island, at Pangkor Island, we rent a pink motorcycle and we ride all over the island =P that is our first time riding a motorcycle together and i am so happy!!! At night, we had our dinner at our room, we tapau before we went back to our hotel and after that she continue doing her work, she is not well, pity her and i am so worried of you baby, i want you to know, whatever condition you are, i am always there for you.

baby, i love you so much and i really couldn't believe that we are married, i feels like we just know each others like few days ago, i hope our marriage gonna last forever baby, muaaaahhhh =*

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Last Day

Today when i woke up, as usual i will call my dear baby to waken her up, but today is different. When i realize at 615am, my eyes is automatically as bright as a sun, then when i call my dear baby, i do not have to wait her long, she answered my call just in a split seconds, and she doesn't sound like sleepy anymore, you want to know why? it is all because of tomorrow event! our marriage event.

After she answered my call, we talk for around half an hour, we couldn't believe that tomorrow we are getting married, is this for real? or am i just dreaming? before this we keep on waiting when will our marriage be, why does it so long, but today all in a sudden, we realized that tomorrow is the day, i am so exhilarated, yet nervous. If you ask me what am i thinking, i will answered you there is nothing in my mind and I'm speechless.

Today, we have lots of things to do, i have to ask someone to sew my sampin, we have to take a passport photo (i'm with songkok and she with dark tudung), take her nikah dress from laundry, going to spa (are we? or are you? =p), what else ek? later i figured it out, as for now i going to take my bath!! bye2..

Before i forgot, i really can't wait for our honeymoon at Swiss Garden Golf Resort & Spa Damai Laut Lumut, it is going to be great, i promise u baby ;D



p/s: when someone getting married in a romance movies, there a verse 'i now pronounce you husband and wife, you may kiss the bride', i really loves to see that moment in a romance movie ;P

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

3 More Days To Go

Today is 22nd of March 2011, in 3 more days, my status will go from single to married, preparation for our wedding i think is 98% complete. We have known each other for quite a long time, and we have been together for 1 year plus, but my feeling towards her is just like i felt in love with her yesterday because everyday my feeling towards her getting deeper and deeper. Even though we fight a lot recently, but we ended up laughing at the end, she is cute, beautiful, and very bright, she is the reason why I'm still standing, without her, i am nobody, she give me strength, she makes me happy and she makes me feels special, thanks Noraisma for always there for me, i hope our future will gets better as time goes by, i love you Noraisma, i love u so much ;)

p/s: sampin tak jahit lg nih, cane? T.T

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Loving U

Someone, please help me, i need a new job, i am so impatient to get married, i wanna stay together with you baby, i wanna go through everything with you, i am so in love with you baby, i cannot live without you T.T

Keistimewaan Wanita

1. Doa wanita lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah S.A.W akan hal tersebut,jawab baginda: “Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia.”
2. Wanita yang solehah (baik) itu lebih baik daripada 1,000 orang lelaki yang soleh.
3. Barang siapa yang menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah S.W.T dan orang yang takutkan Allah S.W.T akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.
4. Barang siapa yang membawa hadiah (barang makanan dari pasar ke rumah)lalu diberikan kepada keluarganya, maka pahalanya seperti bersedekah. Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki.Maka barang siapa yang menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail A.S
5. Wanita yang tinggal bersama anak-anaknya akan tinggal bersama aku (Rasulullah S.A.W) di dalam syurga.
6. Barang siapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan, lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka baginya adalah syurga.
7. Daripada Aisyah r.a. “Barang siapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuannya, lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada api neraka.
8. Syurga itu di bawah telapak kaki ibu.
9. Apabila memanggil akan engkau dua orang ibubapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu dahulu.
10. Wanita yang taat berkhidmat kepada suaminya akan tertutup pintu-pintu neraka dan terbuka pintu-pintu syurga. Masuklah dari mana-mana pintu yang dia kehendaki dengan tidak dihisab.
11. Wanita yang taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung di udara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan, semuanya beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya dan direkannya (serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya).
12. Aisyah r.a berkata “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah S.A.W, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jawab baginda,… “Suaminya.” “Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?” Jawab Rasulullah S.A.W….”Ibunya. “
13. Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa sebulan Ramadan, memelihara kehormatannya serta taat akan suaminya, masuklah dia dari pintu syurga mana sahaja yang dia kehendaki.
14. Tiap perempuan yang menolong suaminya dalam urusan agama, maka Allah S.W.T memasukkan dia ke dalam syurga lebih dahulu daripada suaminya (10,000 tahun).
15. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah S.W.T mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebaikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.
16. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah S.W.T mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah S.W.T
17. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia daripada dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.
18. Apabila telah lahir (anak) lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.
19. Apabila semalaman (ibu) tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah S.W.T memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 orang hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah S.W.T.

Hikmah Melihat Wajah Orang Yang Kita Sayang Tido

Hikmah Melihat Muka Orang Yang Kita Sayang Sedang Tidur....

melihat orang yang kita sayang pada saat dia tidur... ..

Renungkan/lihatlah betapa sayangnya kita pada mereka... ..

Pernahkah anda menatap orang-orang yang anda sayang saat mereka sedang tidur?

Kalau belum, cubalah sekali saja menatap mereka saat sedang tidur.

Saat itu yang tampak adalah ekspresi paling wajar dan paling jujur dari seseorang.

Seorang artis yang ketika di panggung begitu cantik dan gemerlap pun akan tampak polos dan jauh berbeza jika ia sedang tidur.

Orang paling kejam di dunia pun jika ia sudah tidur tak akan tampak wajah bengisnya.

Cubalah menatap wajah orang-orang yang kita cintai..sayangi itu... Ayah, Ibu, Suami, Isteri, Kakak, Adik, Anak, Sahabat, Semuanya...

Rasakanlah sensasi yang timbul sesudahnya.

Rasakanlah energi cinta yang mengalir perlahan-lahan saat menatap wajah mereka yang terlelap itu.

Rasakanlah getaran cinta yang mengalir deras ketika mengingat betapa banyaknya pengorbanan yang telah dilakukan orang-orang itu untuk kebahagiaan anda.

Pengorbanan yang kadang-kadang tertutupi oleh salah faham kecil yang entah kenapa selalu saja nampak besar.

Secara ajaib Tuhan mengatur agar pengorbanan itu akan tampak lagi melalui wajah-wajah jujur mereka saat sedang tidur. Pengorbanan yang kadang melelahkan serta memenatkan mereka namun enggan mereka ungkapkan.

Dan ekspresi wajah ketika tidur pun membantu untuk mengungkap segalanya.

Tanpa kata, tanpa suara dia berkata... "betapa lelahnya..penatnya aku hari ini".

Dan penyebab lelah dan penat itu? Untuk siapa dia berpenat lelah Tak lain adalah KITA... ..

Suami yang bekerja keras mencari nafkah, isteri yang bekerja keras mengurus dan mendidik anak, juga rumah.

Resapilah kenangan-kenangan manis dan pahit yang pernah terjadi dengan menatap wajah-wajah mereka.

Rasakanlah betapa kebahagiaan dan rasa terharu seketika menerpa jika mengingat itu semua.

Bayangkanlah apa yang akan terjadi jika esok mereka "orang-orang terkasih itu" tak lagi membuka matanya, untuk selamanya ...

Saturday, March 05, 2011

10 Alasan Mengapa Seks Itu Sihat Dan Perlu

Jangan lekas percaya apabila ada sahabat atau keluarga terdekat berkata bahawa hubungan seksual di antara suami isteri itu sekadar dapat menjanjikan kita dengan kenikmatan semata-mata. Itu semua dusta! Kerana ternyata ada beberapa faktor lain yang menjadi alasan yang kuat mengapa pasangan suami isteri harus melakukan hubungan seksual..iaitu menyihatkan! Tidak percaya? Semak saja yang berikut ini..

1. Hasil kajian ilmiah ada menyebutkan bahawa pada saat wanita sedang berghairah ketika bercinta, dia akan mengeluarkan hormon estrogen dua kali lebih banyak daripada biasa. Penghasilan hormon estrogen yang banyak ini bukan saja dapat membuatkan rambut si wanita menjadi lebih bersinar, tetapi juga menjadikan kulit lebih halus dan lembut.

2. Hubungan seksual yang berlangsung dengan lemah lembut dan dalam keadaan rileks akan mengurangkan kemungkinan seseorang itu mengalami jangkitan kulit, alergi ataupun jerawat. Ini kerana keringat yang keluar pada saat aktiviti seksual berlangsung akan membersihkan pori-pori dan menjadikan kulit semakin bersinar.

3. Selain itu aktiviti bercinta akan membakar kalori dalam tubuh anda, terutamanya bagi anda yang sebelum itu baru saja melakukan makan malam di bawah sinar cahaya lilin dengan si dia.

4. Sebagai pengetahuan anda, seks itu ternyata merupakan salah satu olahraga yang paling aman dan nyaman dilakukan! Ini, kerana saat hubungan seksual berlangsung maka semua otot tubuh pun mengalami pelembutan. Tidak hairan pula jika seks disebut-sebut lebih menyihatkan berbanding berenang 20 pusingan. Asyik pula tu!. Lebih menguntungkan, senaman seksual tidak memerlukan pakaian sukan mahupun kasut sukan yang khusus!

5. Seks juga merupakan salah satu cara untuk menyembuhkan depresi ringan. Kenapa? Kerana aktiviti seksual akan melepaskan endhorpin tubuh ke dalam aliran darah, lalu menciptakan sebuah eforia. Sehingga fikiran dan tubuh kita pun terasa ringan dan menyenangkan.

6. Lebih sering anda melakukan hubungan seksual, konon lebih banyak khasiatnya sehingga boleh membuat pasangan anda sering teringat-ingatkan anda. Maksudnya. aktiviti seksual yang anda lakukan itu akan mengeluarkan sejenis kimia tubuh yang disebut pheromone. Nah, perfume tubuh inilah yang boleh membuat pasangan anda tergila-gila untuk kembali bercinta dengan anda!

7. Seks ternyata juga merupakan alat penenang paling selamat di dunia! Faktanya menyebutkan bahawa aktiviti seksual itu 10 kali lebih berkesan berbanding valium atau apa jua dadah lainnya!

8. Percaya atau tidak kalau dikatakan bahawa ciuman yang anda lakukan dengan si dia setiap hari akan menjauhkan kita daripada doktor gigi? Ini adalah di sebabkan, berciuman akan membantu kerja saliva atau air liur dalam membanteras sisa-sisa makanan pada gigi, menurunkan kadar asid yang menjadi penyebab kerosakan gigi, pun mencegah terjadinya timbunan plak pada gigi.

9. Seks juga sebenarnya berkesan mengusir sakit kepala. Sebabnya dalam sebuah aktiviti seksual akan terjadi pelepasan ketegangan dalam aliran pembuluh darah. Oleh itu tidak ada lagi yang namanya penyumbatan pembuluh darah ke otak.

10. Aktiviti seksual yang cukup jumlahnya akan melapangkan hidung dari segala sumbatan. Ini disebabkan seks merupakan salah satu antihistamin dalam tubuh, sehingga ia amat berkesan membantu membanteras asma atau pun alergi debu dan jerami.

To tell you the truth, after you get married, do u must have a reason to have sex? =P

Soalan Bocor =P

For this few days, i've been wondering, what will the tok kadi or jurunikah will ask, so i search the internet and guess what, this is what i found:

Soalan interview dari jurunikah

Apa soalan yang biasanya ditanya oleh jurunikah ni. Bagi anda yang akan berkahwin, anda boleh pergi ke upacara akad nikah rakan-rakan anda untuk mengetahui apa soalan bocor jurunikah tu, boleh la buat persediaan nanti. Antara soalan yang selalu ditanya :

1. Berapa rukun nikah, dan sebutkan satu persatu.
2. Berapa rukun solat dan sebutkan
3. Baca fatihah
4. Mengucap 2 kalimah shahadah
5. Baca doa khunut
6. Baca doa iftitah

Itu yang biasa ditanya, bukan semua soalan ini ditanya, mungkin 2 atau 3 soalan sahaja yang dia tanya. Jadi jangan terlalu bimbang sangat.

43 Pantang Larang Bakal Pengantin

Percaya atau tidak terpulanglah kepada anda. Namun setiap pantang larang orang dulu-dulu pastinya ada hikmah dan kebenarannya. Blog ini terdapat 43 pantang larang untuk bakal pengantin lelaki and perempuan.

1. Jangan makan nasi dengan gulai berkuah beberapa bulan sebelum naik pelamin bagi mengelakkan perut buncit.
2. Elakkan makan ulam yang berbau busuk seperti petai dan jering.
3. Elakkan minum air berkarbonat kerana ia mempunyai gula dan gas yang tinggi dan boleh menyebabkan kencing manis.
4. Kurangkan makan makanan yang manis kerana jika terkena kencing manis, lelaki tersebut menghadapi masalah berat ketika bersama.
5. Kawal makan iaitu sekali makan setiap hari (mengikut sesetengah adat)
6. Elakkan terlalu banyak makan makanan laut kerana ia mengandungi banyak toksid.
7. Amalkan makan telur ayam kampung 2 kali seminggu yang dicampur madu dan ada hitam yang ditumbuk untuk menambah tenaga.
8. Bagi mereka yang banyak angin, minum air halia utk membuang angin.
9. Elakkan minum air soya kerana ia sejuk dan tidak elok untuk alat kelamin.
10. Elakkan minum minuman keras dan merokok.
11. Amalkan makan jamu supaya malam pengantin tidak mengecewakan.
12. Jangan makan sebebas-bebasnya kerana ketika ini sistem dalaman tidak stabil.
13. Elakkan makan dan minum seperti sayur bersifat sejuk seperti kangkung, bayam, timun, jambu batu dan air kelapa agar muka nampak segar.
14. Jangan makan kepala ayam nanti mengantuk masa bersanding.
15. Jangan makan bersulam air kerana dikhuatiri menyebabkan perut menjadi buncit.
16. Jangan bercermin terutama selepas maghrib ke atas bagi mengelak diri dari perkara sihir.
17. Dilarang memandang cermin ketika disolek oleh juruandam kerana dikhuatiri hilang seri.
18. Dilarang membuang alis kerana perbuatan tersebut akan menghilangkan seri wajah buat pengantin lelaki.
19. Elakkan terkena cahaya matahari kerana dikhuatiri hitam dan tidak berseri pada hari perkahwinan.
20. Jangan bercelak atau berlangir serta memotong rambut seminggu sebelum ijabkabul.
21. Jangan cukur kening ditakuti akan menghilangkan seri muka.
22. Jangan keluar dengan pasangan selama 40 hari sebelum diijabkabul untuk mengelakkan tohmahan masyarakat. Selain itu ia bertujuan untuk mengawal nafsu dan menimbulkan perasaan rindu dendam. Perasaan yang timbul akan membuatkan wajah pengantin lebih berseri.
23. Elakkan keluar rumah tanpa tujuan kerana angan-angan yang tinggi menjelang perkahwinan dikhuatiri bakal pengantin mengalami kemalangan jika berada di luar.
24. Jangan bebas keluar ke mana-mana kerana takut di santau oleh mereka yang mempunyai niat yang tidak baik.
25. Jangan tidur di rumah orang kerana takut terkena ilmu yang tidak baik. Ia juga untuk menjaga nama baik keluarga.
26. Jangan terlalu terdedah kepada keluarga lelaki (simpan diri).
27. Jangan berembun atau keluar malam bagi mengelakkan unsur jahat.
28. Elakkan mandi malam kerana tidak elok untuk sendi-sendi.
29. Jangan membuang air kecil dan air besar serentak di dalam air contohnya dalam sungai atau kolah kerana ia boleh melemahkan organ seks.
30. Kaum lelaki elakkan memakai seluar dalam yg ketat pada waktu malam dan tidur meniarap kerana tidak bagus untuk organ seks kerana darah tidak mengalir.
31. Tiga bulan sebelum berkahwin, mula membuat urutan supaya pengantin mempunyai tenaga.
32. Jangan memuaskan nafsu dengan cara sendiri.
33. Cukupkan waktu tidur tujuh hingga lapan jam sehari.
34. Banyakkan baca surah-surah bagi mengelakkan gangguan syaitan. Sentiasa mengingati Allah.
35. elajar ilmu rumahtangga daripada orang yang berpengalaman dan sudah berkahwin tentang rahsia memikat isteri supaya rumahtangga aman dan damai.
36. Sebelum menjadi pengantin, katil kelamin tidak boleh ditiduri oleh pengantin kerana tidak manis.
37. Bilik lelaki atau wanita jangan dikosongkan. Mesti ada orang atau ahli keluarga terdekat tidur di dalam bagi mengelak dari dikhianati orang lain.
38. Selepas nikah mesti ada peneman tidur sebelum bersama. Ia bertujuan untuk menghangatkan lagi kemesraan.
39. Jika telah nikah gantung tidak boleh bersama.
40. Jangan buat kerja yang berat. Bila pengantin membuat kerja berat, dia akan berasa penat dan mudah mengalami gangguan emosi.
41. Jaga pertuturan agar tidak menimbulkan rasa sakit hati.
42. Kedua pengantin dilarang bercakap ketika bersanding kerana kurang manis dipandang tetamu.
43. Lempar baju di atas bumbung rumah tanpa diketahui oleh orang lain bagi mengelakkan hujan turun ketika majlis berlangsung.

Percaya atau tidak terpulanglah kepada anda. Namun setiap pantang larang orang dulu-dulu pastinya ada hikmah dan kebenarannya.

credit to: bakalpengantin.com

Monday, February 28, 2011

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Lagoon Perdana!!! =D

Forgotten about this, we are currently in a process of buying another house, it's hard for us to accept what had happened before, but we have to move forward right? we cannot live in a shadow of the past, so we make our mind to buy another house instead of renting it. The main reason why we wanted to buy this house is because:

1. Strategic location: it is in the middle of our workplace and it is so near to her office.
2. Price: We closed the deal at RM135k, it is a new block and if we plan to rent that house, we can get at least RM650/month easily.
3. Dream: We always dream that we have our own house, so that we can do anything that we want about the house, we can renovate however we like without worries of someone's house that we cannot do this and that.
4. Saving: Believe it or not, we can do much more saving rather than we rent the house. Why? because our montly payment is lower than renting cost per month.
5. Easy: We don't want to moved in and moved out many times which will give you difficulties in a future.

So right now, we are in a process asking for loans, whether using her name alone is sufficient or not, if not then maybe we are going for a joint loan, hope everything going just fine, Insya-Allah.

p/s: baby, this house is yours, and i'm also yours, i love u so much baby, i love u with all my heart.

Looking For A New Job!!!



Omg, almost a month i haven't update this blog, do you want to know why? its all because of my boss, always said the company is growing big, but project engineer still i'm all alone, i'm the project manage, i'm the project engineer, i'm the delivery boy, im the store keeper, i'm everything! i'm so tired with all this, my salary is so damn low, even my bangla workers can get better than i do, everyday went back from office late, then everyday has to come to work early, what do i got? tired and unlimited stress. i don't know what really happened to my boss, he's like a devil in disguise, in front of other, he look so good, but when he with his staff, he transforming into a evil devil, when can i jump to another company, i'm really tired, so damn tired.

P/S : <3 u baby, here attached my TNF Sweater for my hantaran ;) bought it yesterday at Bang Rashid (Karat Adventure)

Tuesday, February 01, 2011

Akemi

Last sunday we went to Jusco and we bought my Adidas Set and her Olay Set for our hantaran. After that we had our lunch at my home and then we continue our journey to One Utama (OU), we are planning to bought her Swatch watches, but then the outlet there disappointed us because the watch that we are looking for is not there. But out of no where, we saw there is bedsheet, pillow thingy sales at the parkson, so we grab one akemi queen size quilt, one akemi queen size bed cover and two akemi pillow for our bed later on, LATER ok =P then we had our dinner at Secret Recipe Bangi, she's having a noodle in tom yam chicken and im having a spageti meatball, every time we met is a wonderful day, hope our happiness and love gonna last forever, when im with you, time flies so fast, and everything is so beautiful, thats include you my dear, i love you and i miss you so very much baby, muuuuaaaaahhhh :*

Friday, January 28, 2011

Busy!!!!

Omaigod!!! This month is like hell, i have never felt this way, so busy plus my boss is like a devil, I'm quitting from this company and I'm looking for a new job, does anyone knows any place that i can work with? I'm getting married this end of march and I'm out of my patient already, i really wanna live with you, i love you and miss you so very much baby!!!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Sedetik Lebih~

Just for you my dearest syg~

Setiap nafas yang dihembus
Setiap degupan jantung
Aku selalu memikirkanmu

Dalam sedar dibuai angan
Dalam tidur dan khayalan
Aku selalu memikirkanmu

Ternyata ku perlukan cinta dari dirimu sayang
Barulah terasa ku bernyawa

Kasihku…ku amat mencintai kamu
Kerana kau beri erti hidup
Ku kan terus mencinta sedetik lebih selepas selamanya

Di kala penuh ketakutan dengan badai kehidupan
Ku bersyukur adanya kamu

Biarlah kehilangan semua yang dimiliki di dunia
Asal masih adanya kamu

Sedetik Lebih by Anuar Zain

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH SYG~

I am very happy knowing that our wedding preparation almost done.. cant wait for that 'day' to come ^.^